Not so
long ago I was talking to my oldest daughter about writing. She (unlike her
mother) has now graduated with a bachelor’s degree in English with a
concentration in creative writing. It is her dream to be a writer and she is
quite talented. Her professors seemed to think so as well so I'm not so bias as
you might think.
As we discussed the fact that we
have the same, yet different, dreams she expressed her fear of
comparison. She wants to be taken seriously as a writer and not as a kid
who does as her mother does. Let me just take a moment here to address the fact
that we as humans (especially women) spend FAR too much time living life in the
land of comparison. Comparison only exists to steal joy. If you want to
look at where someone is and use that as incentive to work harder? Fine.
But do not look at others and lose sight of the blessings that you DO have in
the process. Comparison is the work of the enemy and it does nothing to further
the kingdom of God nor does it do anything to help your mind or heart.
But I digress...I pointed out to
her that we have very different styles in writing. I can only write what
I know and while I have many ideas for works of fiction, I lack the know-how
for getting any of it written. She, however, has the education to do just that.
It was about that time that she said, "Yeah you just write about how much
your life sucks and then add something about God at the end." I'm
not sure if that is exactly how she sees what I do or if she was trying to feel
better or more confident in what she does. I don't really remember my
exact response to that. I will say that my life doesn't suck but I do go
through trials much like everyone else and I find that writing about those
trials and how God gets me through them helps me and maybe they can help others
too. I think that I tried to explain that to her. Maybe....
Life does get hard for us
sometimes, doesn't it? I struggle with anxiety and sometimes
depression. I have control issues. I doubt often that I'm a good enough
wife and mother. The point is that we all do struggle in life at some
time or another. But God says that, “in this life you will have trouble
but take heart for I have conquered the world.” As for adding something
about God, that is the point. I need the reminder and maybe someone else does
too. That is why I do what I do.
I struggle with anxiety.... but
God. Philippians 4:6 says: Do not be anxious about anything, but in every
situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests
before God.
I struggle with worry...but God.
Matthew 6:25-27 says: "Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life,
what you will eat or drink, what you will wear. Is not life more than
food, and the body more than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not
sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds
them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Can any one of you by
worrying add a single hour to your life?"
I feel like
I’m not enough…but God. 1Peter 2:9 But you are not like that, for you are a
chosen people. You are royal priests, a
holy nation, God’s very own possession.
As a result, you can show others the goodness of God, for he called you
out of the darkness and into his wonderful light.
I could
go on and on about the struggles that we have as humans or maybe you don’t
struggle at all. Maybe your life is full
of sunshine and rainbows and you are perfection and quite possibly an alien
from another planet because who doesn’t struggle in life from time to
time. A pastor once said, you are either
going into a storm, in storm, or coming out of one. I don’t know what your
storm is, but I know that if you live on this planet if you aren’t in one now
there will be one coming at some point. My God is bigger than all of it. So maybe I am the but God writer and maybe
that’s ok. I hold no fancy degrees. I doubt if I did it would change anything
anyway. I said I am only capable of
writing what I know at least so far. But
God…. I don’t know what his plans are for me.
I’m not on the planning committee for what happens from here. When I try
to plan it never works out. It is better
if I am just a willing servant.
My daughter is full of ideas and has a passion for writing that I have no doubt will take her far once she hits her stride. Once she lets go of her fears and figures out the but God part. As I explained it to her, I realize that I cannot do anything apart from Him. I’m not smart enough, strong enough, or equipped enough but God….is.
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